Relationships are a little like a fire, if you don't look after it, invest in it with your time or feed the flames, the flame and fire will eventually go out.
This is what sometimes happens in relationships. Relationships need effort, time and work but many find life takes over with work...families...children...get in the way of love and passion.
Past experiences, expectations and thoughts also get in the way and can be a huge block for some relationships.
Many couples turn to trying to change their partner when they feel out of control or insecure.
Are you trying to change your partner?
Stop putting so much energy into trying to change your partner. You can't change others, but as you change your relationship and your partner will also naturally change.
Ask yourself this: Do you really want to change your partner so he/she things, acts, and behaves exactly like you?
Just imagine for a moment what that will be like.
It's quite unbalanced as how would you compliment each other, talk things through, solve problems if you are both so alike?
Learn to celebrate and accept the differences between you both and begin to see these as strengths.
When you stop trying to change your partner, stop accepting your thoughts as reality (I will write more about this later) and give time and space to nurture and ignite your relationship you will find that your relationship will grow from strength to strength and becomes magical once more.
You will begin to see things and issues in their true perspective, understand yourself and your partner on a deeper level and become much closer emotionally, physically and sexually.
Heart of Relationships specialise in working with couples through couple counselling, relationship coaching and sex therapy. We guide and support you as you become your own expert on your relationships and building skills and resources so you can create a compelling future together.
Appointments are available in London and Somerset. Please call 075 3421 3557.
THE RELATIONSHIP EXPERTS International Relationship Experts John Donlon and Linda Connors have over 30 experience between them. They offer powerful and life changing relationship couple counselling and personal development programmes. They work with individuals and couples in the UK, America, Europe and Australia. If you are in relationship crisis are ready to take the first step into saving your relationship you can contact us on 0800 024 86 47.
Linda and John offer relationship advice, solutions and share their thoughts on love, relationships, marriage and intimacy.
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