Sexual issues and relationships

For a relationship to thrive it's fundamental for the couple to have a happy, fun and fulfilled sex life together. 

However for some couples sex becomes the elephant in the room, causing so much anxiety, fear and panic that it is never talked about let alone acted out.

I have worked with sexual issues for many years and often sexual issues can either bring a couple closer together or cause a lot of frustrations, anger and blame which eventually leads to the relationship breaking down.

Working with male and female sexual problems are very different and need to addressed differently.

Men who experience sexual issues (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and sexual anxiety) often have a lot of performance anxiety and fears which creates a cycle of anxiety and thoughts which increases the sexual issue. I have worked with some high profile men and the impact sexual issues have on their masculinity and identity is huge and often they feel emasculated and ashamed.

Working with female sexual issue (orgasm issues, painful sex and low sex drive) needs to be addressed differently than male sexual issues.  Some women fear letting go, intimacy and vulnerability and also carry shame about sex and enjoyment sex (carried from childhood, parents and society).

If you would like to find out more how I can help with sexual issues please get in touch.

Note:  Some medical conditions do cause sexual issues so please ensure you are also diagnosed by your doctor.

Linda Connors