IFS Coaching Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy has been called by its founder Dick Schwartz as "a constraint release model." That is, when parts of us are unburdened from their beliefs and experiences, and new neural pathways are established, in connection with our Self, which is whole, resourceful, embodying the capacities of Curiosity, Creativity, Courage, Compassion, Calm, Confidence, Connectedness, and, in the light and connection with our Self, our parts have the ideal Presence with which to come into being, internally, and in the world, in realising and developing the talents and gifts of our parts, and in our most intimate, social, and affinitive relationships...
I hold, that we absolutely need to unburden parts of us who have been exiled, offer freedom to protective parts and managers who had adopted roles both to protect our exiles and truly to help our systems function in the world. I would add, that the self-realisation of parts in the world, is an essential aspect of our being completely human, and that this is a challenge for each and every human being, no matter how damaged or high-functioning, and that it is my task, to focus on the past, the present and the future, to help all of our parts, and us as complete human beings, to come into being, in line with our essence, and also the evolution and expansiveness of our the growth of our parts in line with our greater contribution to the world.
I also hold, that it is as damaging to a child, not to believe in their potentialities, as it is to neglect them; and that the very purpose of therapy is Self-realisation in a bigger sense, and of our parts in particular.
I also hold, that people will not become truly "well" and unburdened, without the self-realisation of their parts in real time in this world in the present and the future in healing from the past in an evolutional way which contributes to the world.
The focus of healing exiles and expecting the person to function without manifesting the excellence of these parts in synchronicity with releasing their burdens, is not a full system in needing to address our human situation as creative beings.
People will not become "well" unless the parts in their systems are self-realised. This means facing life's considerable challenges and real-world encounters with all the tools and approaches which help our parts develop in their creativity, to meet their challenges and in doing so becoming more than they are in the very act of living creatively, in manifesting their gifts.
And I hold that there is a divine side of this. Inherent in our divinity. Which is our spiritual nature manifest for real organically on earth in our living. This is a kind of prayer. In that our lives, however unconventionally viewed from a conformist religious sense, in our personal becoming, is a prayer, we not only make, but are, in the efforts of our creation, and our creative gifts, to the world.
To this end, encompassing all a person needs to become, in an existential sense, Internal Family System and Coaching, which turns over the issues each of us faces creatively in the gifts of our parts in a purpose beyond conformity in a universal sense which reaches a universal plain which any human being can enter, if they have a certain and right relationship to truth in the context of each field of personality and being can reach...is the living goal of each one of us, which IFS Coaching Therapy humbly kneels before as a teacher to learn from how to help each person - and actually each couple, when we get into relationship, come into being.
This approach marries IFS, Existential Psychotherapy, NLP, Life Coaching, and Relationship Coaching, to creatively approach individuals and couples, and families, and organisations, with a spirit of skill and excellence to aspire to every problem, and every pure goal and intention which is in no way problem focused, but focused on love and giving without limit in self-realisation...to address and open out the field of IFS in a way which uses existence itself as a teacher, and to be informed from each individual, couple, family and organisation, what they need to be and come into being more, and utilize every modality which contains models of excellence and ancient wisdom attuned to this task in a co-creative endeavour to help each individual, couple, family and organisation to form their own therapy and self-realisation in new creative ways, which build uniquely and universally upon their own pulse their own self-realisation and gifts which contribute to the world in their being and pathway to becoming. Which has been described also a flow state, which is the essence of being and living.
System that are "stuck" need to live in the present and the future in being released from their burdens of the past in the self-realisation of our essential parts in line with the Self-realisation of our total essence of who we are. Which means the small things parts apparently do and are, touches on, and is part of our divinity, however common, unconventionally, and especially unique We are in our connectedness with all of our parts, and with Others.
In our beautiful "constraint release" model, who are our parts going to be, once they, and We, in our essence with them, are released?
This is the focus of IFS Coaching Therapy in an Existential Person-Centred and Relational Sense of realising all we are in the world, as an Individual of many parts and With Others, in drawing on every resource available, and that needs creation in the process of meeting this challenge, in our encounter with each other in therapy, to be and become, to serve, client, couple, family, and organisation, from a higher place, from heaven, as on earth, in the metaphysics and dimensions of who we truly are and growing to be - as individuals - in relationship with each other - in all fields, as a couple, intimately, as performers, as families, as organisations...to build our very unique individual and connected common knowledge, which is a kind of creative communion, repair, redemption, restoration, and bigger contribution in the purity of simply love for its own sake, in being in spiritual deeds which have their own form and go beyond us and are borne out of us in delight - and sometimes by accident - and sometimes crafted masterfully - and sometimes arise out of the ashes - and all in accordance with our divinity in touch with the Divinity grater than us of which we are...
Utilizing the IFS protocols upon an individual existential basis incorporating relationships as part of the field in which our parts and we - and each other co-creatively - have our being and continue to come into being in our creativity...IFS Coaching Therapy is for Individuals on their own, as Couples, as families, and as organisations, combining our individual systems, in relationship with couple systems, family systems, organisational systems, and the broadest universal relational systems contained in all of these.
If you would like Individual, Couple, Family, and Organisational Therapy Coaching, and feel called to be an Individual Relationally in whichever field or combination of fields your parts seek release and self-realisation, please contact John on 089 487 5223 to explore how using IFS and Coaching your Self-led therapy can define and co-create its own path as an individual, couple, in the broadest sense of being and becoming yourself - and yourselves, through your unique contribution in your creativity, in your co-creation with each other, and before and with others.
This therapy is Founded in and embodies Internal Family Systems Therapy, with inspirations from Toni Herbine-Blank (Intimacy from the Inside Out), NLP (Tony Robbins - modelling excellence, Robert Dilts, neurological levels), Terry Real (Relationship Power Dynamics) and Cedar Barstow (Repair Processes), Coaching (Robert Holden), Relationship Coaching (John Donlon) and Sex Therapy (Martha Kauppi), Intensive Psychotherapy (Frieda Fromm-Reichmann), Existential Psychotherapy - Processes of Personal Transformation (Rollo May), Focusing (Anna Weiser-Cornell), Polyvagal Therapy (Debs Dana), Person-Centred Therapy (Carl Rogers), Imago Dialogue (Harville Hendricks and Helen LaKelly Hunt), and Many Others...
I hold, that we absolutely need to unburden parts of us who have been exiled, offer freedom to protective parts and managers who had adopted roles both to protect our exiles and truly to help our systems function in the world. I would add, that the self-realisation of parts in the world, is an essential aspect of our being completely human, and that this is a challenge for each and every human being, no matter how damaged or high-functioning, and that it is my task, to focus on the past, the present and the future, to help all of our parts, and us as complete human beings, to come into being, in line with our essence, and also the evolution and expansiveness of our the growth of our parts in line with our greater contribution to the world.
I also hold, that it is as damaging to a child, not to believe in their potentialities, as it is to neglect them; and that the very purpose of therapy is Self-realisation in a bigger sense, and of our parts in particular.
I also hold, that people will not become truly "well" and unburdened, without the self-realisation of their parts in real time in this world in the present and the future in healing from the past in an evolutional way which contributes to the world.
The focus of healing exiles and expecting the person to function without manifesting the excellence of these parts in synchronicity with releasing their burdens, is not a full system in needing to address our human situation as creative beings.
People will not become "well" unless the parts in their systems are self-realised. This means facing life's considerable challenges and real-world encounters with all the tools and approaches which help our parts develop in their creativity, to meet their challenges and in doing so becoming more than they are in the very act of living creatively, in manifesting their gifts.
And I hold that there is a divine side of this. Inherent in our divinity. Which is our spiritual nature manifest for real organically on earth in our living. This is a kind of prayer. In that our lives, however unconventionally viewed from a conformist religious sense, in our personal becoming, is a prayer, we not only make, but are, in the efforts of our creation, and our creative gifts, to the world.
To this end, encompassing all a person needs to become, in an existential sense, Internal Family System and Coaching, which turns over the issues each of us faces creatively in the gifts of our parts in a purpose beyond conformity in a universal sense which reaches a universal plain which any human being can enter, if they have a certain and right relationship to truth in the context of each field of personality and being can reach...is the living goal of each one of us, which IFS Coaching Therapy humbly kneels before as a teacher to learn from how to help each person - and actually each couple, when we get into relationship, come into being.
This approach marries IFS, Existential Psychotherapy, NLP, Life Coaching, and Relationship Coaching, to creatively approach individuals and couples, and families, and organisations, with a spirit of skill and excellence to aspire to every problem, and every pure goal and intention which is in no way problem focused, but focused on love and giving without limit in self-realisation...to address and open out the field of IFS in a way which uses existence itself as a teacher, and to be informed from each individual, couple, family and organisation, what they need to be and come into being more, and utilize every modality which contains models of excellence and ancient wisdom attuned to this task in a co-creative endeavour to help each individual, couple, family and organisation to form their own therapy and self-realisation in new creative ways, which build uniquely and universally upon their own pulse their own self-realisation and gifts which contribute to the world in their being and pathway to becoming. Which has been described also a flow state, which is the essence of being and living.
System that are "stuck" need to live in the present and the future in being released from their burdens of the past in the self-realisation of our essential parts in line with the Self-realisation of our total essence of who we are. Which means the small things parts apparently do and are, touches on, and is part of our divinity, however common, unconventionally, and especially unique We are in our connectedness with all of our parts, and with Others.
In our beautiful "constraint release" model, who are our parts going to be, once they, and We, in our essence with them, are released?
This is the focus of IFS Coaching Therapy in an Existential Person-Centred and Relational Sense of realising all we are in the world, as an Individual of many parts and With Others, in drawing on every resource available, and that needs creation in the process of meeting this challenge, in our encounter with each other in therapy, to be and become, to serve, client, couple, family, and organisation, from a higher place, from heaven, as on earth, in the metaphysics and dimensions of who we truly are and growing to be - as individuals - in relationship with each other - in all fields, as a couple, intimately, as performers, as families, as organisations...to build our very unique individual and connected common knowledge, which is a kind of creative communion, repair, redemption, restoration, and bigger contribution in the purity of simply love for its own sake, in being in spiritual deeds which have their own form and go beyond us and are borne out of us in delight - and sometimes by accident - and sometimes crafted masterfully - and sometimes arise out of the ashes - and all in accordance with our divinity in touch with the Divinity grater than us of which we are...
Utilizing the IFS protocols upon an individual existential basis incorporating relationships as part of the field in which our parts and we - and each other co-creatively - have our being and continue to come into being in our creativity...IFS Coaching Therapy is for Individuals on their own, as Couples, as families, and as organisations, combining our individual systems, in relationship with couple systems, family systems, organisational systems, and the broadest universal relational systems contained in all of these.
If you would like Individual, Couple, Family, and Organisational Therapy Coaching, and feel called to be an Individual Relationally in whichever field or combination of fields your parts seek release and self-realisation, please contact John on 089 487 5223 to explore how using IFS and Coaching your Self-led therapy can define and co-create its own path as an individual, couple, in the broadest sense of being and becoming yourself - and yourselves, through your unique contribution in your creativity, in your co-creation with each other, and before and with others.
This therapy is Founded in and embodies Internal Family Systems Therapy, with inspirations from Toni Herbine-Blank (Intimacy from the Inside Out), NLP (Tony Robbins - modelling excellence, Robert Dilts, neurological levels), Terry Real (Relationship Power Dynamics) and Cedar Barstow (Repair Processes), Coaching (Robert Holden), Relationship Coaching (John Donlon) and Sex Therapy (Martha Kauppi), Intensive Psychotherapy (Frieda Fromm-Reichmann), Existential Psychotherapy - Processes of Personal Transformation (Rollo May), Focusing (Anna Weiser-Cornell), Polyvagal Therapy (Debs Dana), Person-Centred Therapy (Carl Rogers), Imago Dialogue (Harville Hendricks and Helen LaKelly Hunt), and Many Others...
