Argument Patterns
We all have argument patterns we repeat again and again. I have created a unique approach which helps each person unpick their argument pattern and discover a new direct form of communication.
As each partner goes through this process what happens is that their and their partner's understanding of what was happening inside of them and their partner becomes so much clearer - they begin to understand what they and their partner really wanted to say and express, need and want; and what is going on in their own and their partner's heart changes to a much more open-hearted sympathetic communication method - which goes beyond surface communication to profound direct holistic expression of what is most important, listening to themselves and being really heard verbally emotionally spiritually and physically on all levels by the other person who begins to listen with their whole being, and this transforms not only their argument patterns but their communication into a bridge where couples find themselves working as a team, instead of trying to be right.
This is one of the profoundest ways couples who work with me change. Understanding your own and your partner's argument patterns is the key to changing you both in a way which brings you closer, dismantles the opposing systems you have been using, creates understanding and connection to your real voice, heart mind body and soul, enables you to meet each other's real needs in a direct positive way, melts away anger, and produces a profound closeness.
When I created this process couples who were arguing sometimes for 20 years and upwards were amazed at the immediate results and changes they found themselves embodying in their relationship with each other.
You too can experience this closeness and these shifts with your partner as part of this experience of re-constructing your relationship, dis-guarding what hasn't been working, and creating paradigm shifts which change your way of being and your relationship forever. This does not mean you will never argue again, but beyond arguments you will have a whole new roadmap of how to handle things, which gives you a new basis to relate as you embody this new way of living with each other as a team.
We all have argument patterns we repeat again and again. I have created a unique approach which helps each person unpick their argument pattern and discover a new direct form of communication.
As each partner goes through this process what happens is that their and their partner's understanding of what was happening inside of them and their partner becomes so much clearer - they begin to understand what they and their partner really wanted to say and express, need and want; and what is going on in their own and their partner's heart changes to a much more open-hearted sympathetic communication method - which goes beyond surface communication to profound direct holistic expression of what is most important, listening to themselves and being really heard verbally emotionally spiritually and physically on all levels by the other person who begins to listen with their whole being, and this transforms not only their argument patterns but their communication into a bridge where couples find themselves working as a team, instead of trying to be right.
This is one of the profoundest ways couples who work with me change. Understanding your own and your partner's argument patterns is the key to changing you both in a way which brings you closer, dismantles the opposing systems you have been using, creates understanding and connection to your real voice, heart mind body and soul, enables you to meet each other's real needs in a direct positive way, melts away anger, and produces a profound closeness.
When I created this process couples who were arguing sometimes for 20 years and upwards were amazed at the immediate results and changes they found themselves embodying in their relationship with each other.
You too can experience this closeness and these shifts with your partner as part of this experience of re-constructing your relationship, dis-guarding what hasn't been working, and creating paradigm shifts which change your way of being and your relationship forever. This does not mean you will never argue again, but beyond arguments you will have a whole new roadmap of how to handle things, which gives you a new basis to relate as you embody this new way of living with each other as a team.
