A Very Warm Welcome to Couple Coaching
My name is John Donlon. I work with couples to shift their mindsets and hearts in a very personal way, to get their relationship to be all it can be. Over 30 years of working with couples, I have come to really believe in people, and how they can change and grow, in a beautiful way, which shows the best of who they truly are. When couples come to me, arguing, in conflict, feeling misunderstood, and having tried sometimes for years by themselves to make things better, my heart lights up, because they've come to find ways that really work. They have that desire within themselves. And from there, there's a way forwards.
Person-Centred Coaching
In almost every session, each person speaks, and I listen, very carefully. I just take in, and take in, everything. Often things at first seem insurmountable. Huge. Hopeless. Problems with no way forwards, and no solutions. Then, about midway, as I tap into each Couple's own resources and solutions, it's as if the structure of everything becomes clear. And everything begins to change. A new light bursts forwards. And the session begins to completely change.
Finding Answers You Can Live
It has been this way from the very first session I ever did, in a classroom with a partner who was seeking the meaning of his life, and it was a mystery to me, as I listened and listened, and as I tuned in, I began to ask questions, and as he answered more and more, his face began to light up with discovery, and he began discovering his own answers, powerfully, as if no one else could have told him what he was finding inside himself, and feeling on his own pulse. And the end of our little session, it was like he was sitting transformed, with his own truth. I was so moved. Profoundly grateful, and touched. It's been this way for 30 years.
Couples Coaching: Building a Connection.
This process works with each of you as individuals, bringing healing and wholeness to each one of you, and helping you work together as a couple. Helping your fulfil your individual potential, and work as a great team.
When I work with couples, it's as if as I listen, very carefully, each person tunes into themselves more, and articulates their experience more profoundly. More and more of them comes out in the room. Which I love. This is often a revelation to their partner. Sometimes it's as if their partner is seeing them for the first time. As I listen to the person, it seems as if their partner tunes into them, more and more, too. From the listener, I check out what they are hearing their partner say, what they are experiencing their partner's feeling, how "with them" they are? Often that, too, is a revelation to the one who is speaking. Just how really present and open hearted their partner is. It is as if, there is a real meeting. For couples who came in the door feeling unheard, unseen, and not communicating, that is often a revelation. And for me, from my heart, this is a powerful moment.
Sometimes an argument will begin again in the session. This can be an opportunity to experience learning new skills which turn negative focus to positive, and learning new ways of turning conflict into collaboration. These are some of the most advanced communication skills both the most successful negotiators in the world, and also the happiest long term couples use. The power of these skills, attitudes and behaviours, to transform individuals own mindsets and couple's relationships, have strong neuro-scientific evidence to back them up.
A Deeper Connection with Yourself and with Your Partner: Creating A Bridge
Over and over, as each person in Coaching expresses more and more of their own experience in the session, they seem to build up a deeper sense of themselves, discovering new facets about their own experience - and that is exciting to me, to be in the presence of someone learning new things about themselves - and exciting to their partner too! It's as if the energy between the three of us is the Bridge where the beauty of people can meet. And somehow, somehow, it's out of the very problems people bring the turning around comes.
Couples in Relationship Coaching learn advanced communication skills,
how to work with compassion, and how to work together.
Taking Your First Step
If you want to take the first step, share where you are, and discover how I may help you, call John on 0795 412 9046.
About Me
I am a fully qualified Counsellor, a Relationship Coach, have done multiple trainings with Robert Holden, including his Coach Camp on Loving and Being Loved, am an NLP Practitioner, a Level 3 IFS Practitioner, a Coaching Supervisor and Trainer, have been featured on Sky Television, and am FQ Magazine's Leading Relationship Expert now for over 3 years.
Testimonials
“Profound, inspirational, informative, creative…Thank you John. So so much appreciation for your skills and contribution and presence.”
Fiona, Life Coach and Internet Business Owner, London
“You have been an incredible help in an extremely difficult time in our relationship. All of the positive thoughts and energy you have given us have truly changed our relationship for the better.”
Anna, CEO, London
“We appreciate everything you have done for us. We cannot imagine that there could have been anyone better to help us through what has been a very difficult time and especially for us to end up feeling even better about each other than we did before. You are quite exceptional.”
Peter, Property Developer, Leeds
Person-Centred Coaching
In almost every session, each person speaks, and I listen, very carefully. I just take in, and take in, everything. Often things at first seem insurmountable. Huge. Hopeless. Problems with no way forwards, and no solutions. Then, about midway, as I tap into each Couple's own resources and solutions, it's as if the structure of everything becomes clear. And everything begins to change. A new light bursts forwards. And the session begins to completely change.
Finding Answers You Can Live
It has been this way from the very first session I ever did, in a classroom with a partner who was seeking the meaning of his life, and it was a mystery to me, as I listened and listened, and as I tuned in, I began to ask questions, and as he answered more and more, his face began to light up with discovery, and he began discovering his own answers, powerfully, as if no one else could have told him what he was finding inside himself, and feeling on his own pulse. And the end of our little session, it was like he was sitting transformed, with his own truth. I was so moved. Profoundly grateful, and touched. It's been this way for 30 years.
Couples Coaching: Building a Connection.
This process works with each of you as individuals, bringing healing and wholeness to each one of you, and helping you work together as a couple. Helping your fulfil your individual potential, and work as a great team.
When I work with couples, it's as if as I listen, very carefully, each person tunes into themselves more, and articulates their experience more profoundly. More and more of them comes out in the room. Which I love. This is often a revelation to their partner. Sometimes it's as if their partner is seeing them for the first time. As I listen to the person, it seems as if their partner tunes into them, more and more, too. From the listener, I check out what they are hearing their partner say, what they are experiencing their partner's feeling, how "with them" they are? Often that, too, is a revelation to the one who is speaking. Just how really present and open hearted their partner is. It is as if, there is a real meeting. For couples who came in the door feeling unheard, unseen, and not communicating, that is often a revelation. And for me, from my heart, this is a powerful moment.
Sometimes an argument will begin again in the session. This can be an opportunity to experience learning new skills which turn negative focus to positive, and learning new ways of turning conflict into collaboration. These are some of the most advanced communication skills both the most successful negotiators in the world, and also the happiest long term couples use. The power of these skills, attitudes and behaviours, to transform individuals own mindsets and couple's relationships, have strong neuro-scientific evidence to back them up.
A Deeper Connection with Yourself and with Your Partner: Creating A Bridge
Over and over, as each person in Coaching expresses more and more of their own experience in the session, they seem to build up a deeper sense of themselves, discovering new facets about their own experience - and that is exciting to me, to be in the presence of someone learning new things about themselves - and exciting to their partner too! It's as if the energy between the three of us is the Bridge where the beauty of people can meet. And somehow, somehow, it's out of the very problems people bring the turning around comes.
Couples in Relationship Coaching learn advanced communication skills,
how to work with compassion, and how to work together.
Taking Your First Step
If you want to take the first step, share where you are, and discover how I may help you, call John on 0795 412 9046.
About Me
I am a fully qualified Counsellor, a Relationship Coach, have done multiple trainings with Robert Holden, including his Coach Camp on Loving and Being Loved, am an NLP Practitioner, a Level 3 IFS Practitioner, a Coaching Supervisor and Trainer, have been featured on Sky Television, and am FQ Magazine's Leading Relationship Expert now for over 3 years.
Testimonials
“Profound, inspirational, informative, creative…Thank you John. So so much appreciation for your skills and contribution and presence.”
Fiona, Life Coach and Internet Business Owner, London
“You have been an incredible help in an extremely difficult time in our relationship. All of the positive thoughts and energy you have given us have truly changed our relationship for the better.”
Anna, CEO, London
“We appreciate everything you have done for us. We cannot imagine that there could have been anyone better to help us through what has been a very difficult time and especially for us to end up feeling even better about each other than we did before. You are quite exceptional.”
Peter, Property Developer, Leeds
About John DonlonJohn Donlon is UK's Leading Couple Counsellor and has studied with the UK's and America's leading and most successful therapists. This places him in the position of being highly skilled in helping you go beyond saving your relationship to release your relationship potential, built upon living your dreams.
John brings his knowledge and trains you in advance communication, negotiation, and intimacy skills to bring out the best in you and your relationship. John works with highly committed couples who are ready to undergo a journey of building a loving and deeply enriched relationship. |
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