Healing, Unburdening, Self-actualisation, through Internal Family Systems Coaching
With IFS we can find a centre within ourselves, from which to heal all of our parts, and from which all of our parts, can at last be in the Presence of Self, within which, they can come into being, within ourselves and in the world, to deeply self-actualise who we are, and contribute to humanity, in the most powerful and compelling ways we can, and live in the present, with an eternal love of goodness.
IFS takes us to places where we can unburden and heal our experiential wounds, from a foetus, from childhood, from adolescence, from adulthood, and release the burdens our parts are carrying, so that they can come back to their own original graced states, what Marc Rico called "unlearning our way back to God," where parts come to their own origins and beginnings.
But what happens when parts come to that place? In my view, parts are designed, to become excellent, to really fullfill their natures', and contribute to the world.
Of course as we live, parts of us may get hurt, or respond to life's vicissitudes in ways that need our deep compassion, curiousity, connection, and courageous leadership, which is attuned to their essence. So we need to be in continual connection and contact with them. It is a continual dance between parts and Self - our divine core.
And they still have their own growth, transformation, evolution, and natures' to fulfill, in their own right, and as part of a team, of family members, in our Internal Family System.
Internal Family Systems Coaching bridges the gap when a part comes into its original source of its own self-energy with a small "s", which is still of divine source, and helps our parts to grow into excellence, to contribute to humanity, in connection with our Self-energy, our bigger Self-essence, which is our universal divinity aligned with our soul's energy.
In this way, we become a person. A whole human being. And it's not like we are suddenly "done," but that we are aligned from Self with our parts on our evolutionary journey of Growth, Contribution, Courage, and Connection - and a modification of all we are learning and giving to keep growing, evolving and contributing, in our creative works.
And growing relationally with our most intimate partner, friends, soul-friends, acquaintances, and even contributing through those we encounter who are against our Self-energy, in the evolution of our gifts.
When people opposed Jesus what came out of His heart from the Holy Spirit was wisdom and a richness which magnified the Presence of God.
We, at least I, am far littler than Jesus, but the Spirit which abides in me is transcendent and a gift against and for a more universal love in all that I encounter and encompass.
So IFS combined with Self-led coaching helps us heal our wounds and live in continual grace and connections with all of our parts, in our own inner relationship with all of our parts from Self, and outwardly from Self in connection with our parts, to all of the systems of others in the world, as individuals, and groups, societies, and cultures.
I am especially concerned and focused on our most intimate relationships, which for me includes my partner and my dearest friends.
The gifts of John Gottman, Harville Hendricks and Katherine LaKelly-Hunt, Toni Herbine-Blank, Terry Real, Dick Schwartz, Cece Sykes, Ossi Ornablt, Einat, all come into the universal structure of existence, to enhance our way along the path, as individuals and in relationship with each other, as couples, as parents, as families, and as friends.
What I am particularly focusing on is the addition of coaching and excellence when parts are unburdened to empower them and us in a broader sense to Self-actualise and contribute our gifts in generosity to humanity.
We need to learn.
And out of our learning comes profound growth.
And we need not to abandon the deeper ways of connecting to, unburdening, metabolising parts' emotions they have experienced and in real time as we live, nurturing and being with our parts, we need all of this, I believe, as long as we live, and which is the foundation of Internal Family System Therapy - forever, as long as we live, in the dance, between the energies of our Self and parts' - and teams of parts, in our broader systems, we also need, as human beings, the resources of coaching so that we live in growing excellence on our journeys of contribution to the human family, and our beloved earth, and the creatures of all of creation, from a quantum place, an energy of Origin, a Source, manifest on earth, as in the Lord's Prayer, "Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven." This is a portal. A prayer of energy from the divine manifest on earth. Through us. Through our deeds and our hearts' and minds' and living.
This gives meaning and substance to our lives.
And it is on this course, I offer IFS Coaching for healing, unburdening, and excellence. Individually and in relationship.
Each Course is existential and uniquely tailored to each individual and their relationship as a couple, as a parent, as a daughter or son, as a friend, as an employer, as an employee, throughout the levels of of organisation.
So in whatever context you come, basically, you hold your own answer.
And it is up to us, to find them, and for you when your touch the source within you, and within your partner, the other, n Martin Buber's words, in the I-Thou, to live your sacred truth relationally and self-actualise yourselves and each other.
For Individual, Couple, Family, Group, and Organisational Coaching, contact me on 0795 412 9046.
IFS takes us to places where we can unburden and heal our experiential wounds, from a foetus, from childhood, from adolescence, from adulthood, and release the burdens our parts are carrying, so that they can come back to their own original graced states, what Marc Rico called "unlearning our way back to God," where parts come to their own origins and beginnings.
But what happens when parts come to that place? In my view, parts are designed, to become excellent, to really fullfill their natures', and contribute to the world.
Of course as we live, parts of us may get hurt, or respond to life's vicissitudes in ways that need our deep compassion, curiousity, connection, and courageous leadership, which is attuned to their essence. So we need to be in continual connection and contact with them. It is a continual dance between parts and Self - our divine core.
And they still have their own growth, transformation, evolution, and natures' to fulfill, in their own right, and as part of a team, of family members, in our Internal Family System.
Internal Family Systems Coaching bridges the gap when a part comes into its original source of its own self-energy with a small "s", which is still of divine source, and helps our parts to grow into excellence, to contribute to humanity, in connection with our Self-energy, our bigger Self-essence, which is our universal divinity aligned with our soul's energy.
In this way, we become a person. A whole human being. And it's not like we are suddenly "done," but that we are aligned from Self with our parts on our evolutionary journey of Growth, Contribution, Courage, and Connection - and a modification of all we are learning and giving to keep growing, evolving and contributing, in our creative works.
And growing relationally with our most intimate partner, friends, soul-friends, acquaintances, and even contributing through those we encounter who are against our Self-energy, in the evolution of our gifts.
When people opposed Jesus what came out of His heart from the Holy Spirit was wisdom and a richness which magnified the Presence of God.
We, at least I, am far littler than Jesus, but the Spirit which abides in me is transcendent and a gift against and for a more universal love in all that I encounter and encompass.
So IFS combined with Self-led coaching helps us heal our wounds and live in continual grace and connections with all of our parts, in our own inner relationship with all of our parts from Self, and outwardly from Self in connection with our parts, to all of the systems of others in the world, as individuals, and groups, societies, and cultures.
I am especially concerned and focused on our most intimate relationships, which for me includes my partner and my dearest friends.
The gifts of John Gottman, Harville Hendricks and Katherine LaKelly-Hunt, Toni Herbine-Blank, Terry Real, Dick Schwartz, Cece Sykes, Ossi Ornablt, Einat, all come into the universal structure of existence, to enhance our way along the path, as individuals and in relationship with each other, as couples, as parents, as families, and as friends.
What I am particularly focusing on is the addition of coaching and excellence when parts are unburdened to empower them and us in a broader sense to Self-actualise and contribute our gifts in generosity to humanity.
We need to learn.
And out of our learning comes profound growth.
And we need not to abandon the deeper ways of connecting to, unburdening, metabolising parts' emotions they have experienced and in real time as we live, nurturing and being with our parts, we need all of this, I believe, as long as we live, and which is the foundation of Internal Family System Therapy - forever, as long as we live, in the dance, between the energies of our Self and parts' - and teams of parts, in our broader systems, we also need, as human beings, the resources of coaching so that we live in growing excellence on our journeys of contribution to the human family, and our beloved earth, and the creatures of all of creation, from a quantum place, an energy of Origin, a Source, manifest on earth, as in the Lord's Prayer, "Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven." This is a portal. A prayer of energy from the divine manifest on earth. Through us. Through our deeds and our hearts' and minds' and living.
This gives meaning and substance to our lives.
And it is on this course, I offer IFS Coaching for healing, unburdening, and excellence. Individually and in relationship.
Each Course is existential and uniquely tailored to each individual and their relationship as a couple, as a parent, as a daughter or son, as a friend, as an employer, as an employee, throughout the levels of of organisation.
So in whatever context you come, basically, you hold your own answer.
And it is up to us, to find them, and for you when your touch the source within you, and within your partner, the other, n Martin Buber's words, in the I-Thou, to live your sacred truth relationally and self-actualise yourselves and each other.
For Individual, Couple, Family, Group, and Organisational Coaching, contact me on 0795 412 9046.
