Many couples work with us on the Heart of Relationship Couple Counselling and Coaching Programme because they are tired of arguing, tired of not being heard or understood and tired of feeling like they are dead in the relationship as the passion, connection and togetherness has been stunted.
Communication and trust in a way is the glue that holds the relationship together. Without proper communication couples can not speak with each other clearly. Without trust couples cannot build a relationship.
At times John and I will work together with a couple if they request it - to allow them to get a full female and male perspective - this allows the couple to receive the both the powerful feminine and masculine energy in the room to guide and work with the couple. Many clients say this gives them incredible insight, awareness and healing in the relationship and helps them to move forward in their relationship to where they want to be.
An aspect of John's work which I love and respect is watching John teach couples the art of communication skills. If the couple have been arguing for years and they have been stuck in their inner rage and they have forgotten that they are actually a partnership not two sides fighting for power.
As John teaches the couple the skills to communicate with respect, honour and with their truth and to be able to really hear with their heart, mind and body what their partner is saying I find this an incredible powerful process to witness.
As the couples learn the art of communication skills and more importantly implement and embed these skills into their life and relationship - they begin to embrace each other with respect and love perhaps for the first time in years. It's a privilege to be part of their journey.
The light in their relationship begins to shine more brightly as they connect to the passion, connection and togetherness as they begin to understand their own needs and their partner's needs and how to articulate this.
From this place trust in the relationship begins to be nurtured and developed and the relationship begins to be alive again and is even more stronger and powerful then it was before.
Proper communication and trust are fundamental to relationships as this is what holds the relationship together with understanding, awareness and meaning. From this place the relationship naturally continues to grow and develop into an even more loving and fulfilled relationship and partnership.
If you are tired of arguing and being stuck in conflict I invite you to contact us and discover how the Heart of Relationships Couple Counselling and Coaching Programme can help you to move forward in your relationship with communication skills, respect and passion.
To find out more please call 0800 024 8647.
Linda Connors Therapist and Coach for sexual and intimacy issues
If you are searching for relationship counselling it's important that you work with a relationship counsellor who not only understand the dynamics of relationships but also works with you and helps you to move from where you are to where you want to go as a couple.
In a way teaching you the structure, developing your awareness and teaching you the skills to become your own relationship counsellor.
Sadly most relationship counsellors are not taught these skills, get caught up in the cycle of conflict with the couple and do understand the structure of how to build a successful and thriving relationship, so you are at an immediate advantage taking your relationship to a therapist who operates on another effective and powerful level with a unique skill base.
I offer you a different level of understanding which comes from many years of my personally studying the similarities of how different and varied successful relationships work, and how these dynamics can be learned and duplicated to allow you to grow together in your own unique way!
Many of my clients have tried the traditional couple and relationship approach and find that it keeps them locked in a battle of conflict without truly understanding how the dynamics of the relationship is the driving force of conflict.
If you engage in this process with your own becoming, with relationship counselling I can help you reach where you want to go more cleanly, faster, and effectively, learning tools for life to build and enhance the fabric of your relationship as you both continue to grow and change for the better, magnifying your moments and times of delight in yourselves with each other, as you find and keep your life-visions in sight.
It is part of my life mission to help you flourish as an individual and as a couple, to build a relationship and life which cherishes and celebrates your creation of delight with each other, from a deep multifaceted wisdom which manifests through this process as you both grow and come into being more and more.
If you chose to engage in this process you can learn skills which will expand your relationship
and your life, as you continue to become stronger as a couple long after your relationship counselling sessions are over, and in your own unique ways, together.
If you would like to book a relationship counselling appointment and discover about how relationship counselling can help you and your partner can unlock the positive potential out of the issues you are facing and bring you closer as a couple with a deeper sense of commitment, allowing you to experience more shared delight with each other, and which allows you to clearly see, embody and create the future you both really want, enriching your lives together, please contact me on 0785 44755286.
John Donlon relationship counselling and coach
John offers relationship advice, solutions and share their thoughts on love, relationships, marriage and intimacy.