"The important thing, is that clients, when they’re given the tools, create their own value out of the relationship, and what they do is absolutely amazing, because they create beauty and connection and closeness. But the tools are important, to be able to do that. And that’s what we offer. And really you can’t put a price on that, because what you can do with those tools are limitless."
John Donlon London Couple Counsellor and Coach
Couples who come to couple counselling come because they want to move forwards in their relationship but are a loss as to how.
They may intuitively feel that a neutral presence who can hear them as individuals can create a space where they can at last hear each other, offer a positive re-conciliatory insightful presence, and a fair perspective which can provide a channel for them to connect despite their differences.
And connection is what most couples really want - however different they are - and in fact differences can add strength to the relationship when their is mutual respect and co-operation and compromise as well as magnifying the positive attractive qualities the couple see and desire in each other and hold for themselves.
One of the things I ask in couple counselling is that if a person wants compassion, love, respect, consideration, appreciation, positivity - they go first.
This changes things around radically, and when both people work in this way, the couple's own creativity and desire for a great relationship can open up amazing generosities, which inspire kindness, and are inspirational.
If you think this sounds different from any other couple counselling you may have come across, you are right. Combining professional accredited couple counselling, NLP, mindfulness, and more, in Couple Counselling I provide a space where you can learn:
John Donlon - Couple Counsellor and Relationship Coach
John offers relationship advice, solutions and share their thoughts on love, relationships, marriage and intimacy.