When some American car manufacturer's visited a Japanese car plant, they were mystified. You see, in the American plant, they had a man with a rubber hammer at the end of the production line, hammering and making sure the doors matched perfectly. But in the Japanese plant, there was no man at the end of the line with a hammer.
So, the Americans asked, "Where's the guy at the end?"
"The one with the rubber hammer?"
"We don't have one."
"So, how do you make sure the door fits?"
"We design it that way," the Japanese executives replied, sheepishly.
It is the same with your model of love. If it is not designed well, there will be problems, and you could constantly have the man with the hammer at the end trying to deal temporarily with the symptoms.
And you can deal with the symptoms.
But it is much easier and quicker in the long run, to design your model of love so it works really well in the first place.
That is what we help you to do. We go to the core of the issues so you can fully live.
The key to a lasting, stable, fulfilling model of love is this: Putting Love and Connection First in Your Relationship.
That means above everything.
It means above your children, above your friends and family, above your money or security - literally everything.
And if there is anything - say you want a house and your partner is not providing enough money - say you have children and you put them first - say you have a beloved pet whom you love - if there is literally anything you put before Love and Connection in your relationship, that thing becomes a block to love as it comes between you and your partner like a shadow; and your relationship will be in jeopardy, because you have a fundamentally flawed model of love..
Not only will problems happen, but they will happen again and again, unless you put this Invisible, non-materialistic value before anything else in your relationship.
Why should you do this?
Because if you put Love and Connection above everything else in your life with your partner, it creates an inspirational foundation. It means you really work together as a team. And from this position of strength, your relationship can weather anything, and you have the foundation to create the life you want.
Whereas if you base your relationship on your husband providing a house, money, a lifestyle for you - if these things are not forthcoming - you will leave the relationship. Whereas if you put Love and Connection First you can work together for anything because you have already decided to be a strong team.
Do you see the difference?
Not only this, but if anything is in your way which is blocking you from loving your partner, limiting your relationship, and limiting your life, we can discover it in our relationship program and help you Re-align your Relationship so you become a strong team putting Love and Connection as your No. 1 priority and and create an inspirational Foundation to generate the life you want.
Couples who go through our programs change, report that they have become better than ever in therapy with us. And if you feel called to do this work, you can create the same changes too.
You don't have to end a relationship where you are making the mistake of living with a flawed model of love. You can change, and your peace of mind, commitment to each other, and relationship are waiting for you, when you put Love and Connection First and allow love to flow freely.
From this platform, as a team, you can grow together emotionally, sexually, physically, and environmentally, and shape your life together from a place where you are connected.
When you put Love and Connection First for your Relationship above all else, the gates of Love and Connection fly open and you become connected to the Source of Love in your hearts' and relationship.
You can really begin to live your life as a couple together. This is the jewel of great price most couples are seeking. And they have it within themselves all along.
But each couple must discover it for themselves by putting Love and Connection above everything to allow love to flow and literally en-lighten their hearts' in their most intimate relationship.
If you want to come into alignment, create a healthy model of love, open your mind to understanding how to put Love and Connection First, and open your heart to unlimited Source, these are the values we live by and believe in.
THE RELATIONSHIP EXPERTS International Relationship Experts John Donlon and Linda Connors have over 30 experience between them. They offer powerful and life changing relationship couple counselling and personal development programmes. They work with individuals and couples in the UK, America, Europe and Australia. If you are in relationship crisis are ready to take the first step into saving your relationship you can contact us on 0800 024 86 47.
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